Rules of dating guys playing it cool

Wait for him to call you [not by the phone of course] and end phone calls first. If he isn’t the man you want him to be then it’s better to know sooner than later.

I know it sounds strict and old-fashioned but again, human emotion is powerful. Keep in mind that men are as nervous when dating as women are. Too often women wait until they’re hurt to share their feelings. If you aren’t happy with his behavior don’t see him.

You can make it as easy as need be without seeming obvious. Your only job is to welcome the interaction by being inviting and light-hearted.

No-one wants to fight for someone’s attention, and this move makes it seem like you are more interested in playing the field than starting a relationship.A popular dating rule is that you should always wait a day to text back – but this is one of the worst dating rules in existence!Don’t worry – you don’t have to drop everything to reply to a text. Instead reply to the message when you have a few free minutes.This way you don’t seem overly keen or distant – and you’re not playing a game, you are just being genuine.Right and more importantly Not to sound old-fashioned but after my years of dating and writing about dating I find that women who let men approach them have longer lasting relationships. If you believe that you will meet the right man then you don’t need to approach the wrong ones.

Recognize if you’re approaching men out of the need to control your circumstance or out of impatience or insecurity.Are you willing to let what is meant for you, come to you?Utilize your attraction skills, body language and eye contact to make approaching you easy and comfortable. I suggest flirting with heavy eye contact, getting close to, maybe even bumping him or walking past him and letting him speak to you.If someone texts you and you don’t reply, it will just seem like you are ignoring them and they will stop texting you.Remember that it only takes a few seconds to see that you have a message, and it only takes a few minutes to reply!If a man contacts you and invites you on a date, in his mind he is courting you. It doesn’t mean that you don’t really care about your potentially perfect guy; it just means that you’re keeping your options open. I know it seems crazy because dating is all about fighting right?