You see, most guys will do everything they can to please girls into liking them, but guys who couldn’t care less about impressing random girls stand out like a rose amongst thorns.
Chances are later in the night she’ll come find you again and you can take things further. It’s always important to pull back a little in any fresh interaction so she doesn’t get worried you’re never going to leave. Build her curiosity, comfort and excitement about meeting up with you first, then ask her out on a date.
To get her number simply hand her your phone and tell her you’ll text her. An easy way to naturally steer the conversation towards a date is to insinuate the idea of a date first.
The best way to do this is with a genuine compliment. Tell her exactly why you approached her and be as specific if you can.
Use the first think you noticed about her that attracted you.
If you have a voice like Vin Diesel then you’re in luck 😉 As you’re talking to her make sure you keep smiling and lean a little backwards so you’re not all up in her face.
Hold eye contact and tell her why you simply had to come say hello.
Perhaps it’s her her cute smile, her dimples, or if you see her a lot maybe this time her hair is tied back for the first time.
If she’s a stranger and you meet her in the day, “Hey, I know this is random but I just walked past you and thought I have to go back and talk to that girl.” But if you meet her in a bar there’s no need to mention any awkwardness.
As you talk to her watch that your vocal inflection isn’t too high and annoying like you something, for example when a beggar says “excuse me, can you spare any change???
” No one can stand needy requests from strangers they’ve just met, especially “excuse me”. Instead use a neutral or downwards vocal inflection.
It shows her you’re a not afraid of risking confrontation and that she can rely on you to stick to your beliefs and tell the truth. Opportunities for teasing will happen naturally when you stick to your opinions and stop fake agreeing with women to please them all the time.